Women feel, men act. Men don't seem to understand this about their wives and girlfriends. While the woman is expounding about her issue, the man is analyzing, offering solutions and becoming frustrated at the woman's negative response. She does not want a solution, she wants to express her feelings. Many times she knows the answer to her problem, she just has a different agenda.
The men who do not understand this are in for a miserable ride. They pull their hair out as they listen to the dramatic stories weaved by their women. They know the answer to her problem and are ready to act. Maybe, they are even ready to kick someone's a_s to right an injustice done to the fair maiden. Meanwhile, their lady has expended all her energy and is shocked at his testosterone laden response. She does not know that she is on one planet and he is on another.
Men and women, realize this difference and accept it. Let her vent, offer your solutions but don't get frustrated when she continues to spew. Women, let your man be a man. He will want to ride in to right any wrongs inflicted upon you. Be clear about your femininity and about the fact that we women sometimes just want our men to hear our feelings.
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