Showing posts with label masculinity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label masculinity. Show all posts

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Pancake Recipe for Dads

B-Daddy here. This morning I started to make some weekend pancakes, and was bored and unenthusiastic about the effort. I'm a firm believer that in my role as Dad, I should have a breakfast specialty. It's important to be able to do a few things in the kitchen and builds relationships. Pancakes fit the bill. Today, I decided to pull together a number of ideas I have had or tried over the years, this is the result.

First, this recipe can start with whatever your base recipe might be. I realize that most of us don't make pancakes totally from scratch, so this recipe is intended to supplement whatever recipe is your base. I will use a store brand mix recipe for illustration.

Base recipe for 12 pancakes:

Dry mix - 2 cups
Milk - 1-1/2 cups but we are reducing this to 1-1/4 cups due to the extra liquid in our supplement below.
Eggs - 2
Oil - 2 Tbsp

B-Daddy's supplement:

Lemon Juice - 2 tbsp
Baking powder - 2 tsp
Granular Sugar - 3 Tbsp
Vanilla - 2 Tbsp
Beer - 1/2 cup (I recommend a bock or dark lager like Longboard Lager.)
Quaker Oats Instant Oatmeal (Maple & Brown Sugar) - 2 packs

Mixing the batter:

In mixing bowl, lightly beat eggs, and add the liquid ingredients (milk, oil, lemon juice, vanilla) but not the beer, also add the sugar. Stir to an even consistency. Add the beer.

Separately mix the dry pancake mix, oatmeal and baking powder.

Add the dry mix to the liquid and blend with a fork until at an even consistency, but small lumps can remain. (Do not over blend.)

Using 1/4 cup portions, pour the batter on a lightly buttered griddle. Flip when the bubbles have mostly formed (a little sooner than with your traditional recipe.)

I may experiment in the future with increasing the beer and decreasing the other main liquid, whether it be milk or water.

Some notes on the theories behind this recipe.
The carbonation from the beer helps lighten the pancakes, as does the combination of the lemon juice and baking powder. The sugar makes the pancakes sweeter, but also causes the edges to carmelize more quickly, hence the need to flip the cakes sooner than otherwise. The oatmeal makes for a heartier consistency. Cooking with butter? Well that should be obvious.

Cross posted to B-Daddy's Other Blog.

Saturday, March 5, 2011

Women Love A He-Man


Pam and Michael walk into a bar for drinks on the way home from their date. Michael scans the room and stares down a guy giving Pam a hard up and down. He puts his hand on her back possessively and guides her onto a bar stool. Earlier, in the car she had said she felt like having a margarita. When the bartender walks over Michael says, the lady wants a margarita and I'll have a martini. He takes a twenty out of his wallet, puts it on the bar and turns to Pam, winking at her. Is Michael a controlling jerk or a he-man?

To truly answer this question we need more information on Michael, but even given this limited scene some women will say he is a macho jerk. Women can take care of themselves and might bristle at Michael's actions saying he is overprotective. I say these women secretly love a he-man. What defines a he-man? A he-man is protective of his woman without being controlling. He takes control of situations without disregarding her desires. He is well mannered and confident without being cocky. He is not threatened by other men in normal circumstances. A he-man does not use women, he appreciates them. He does not whine or worry about what everyone thinks about him. He is considerate to those around him.

John Wayne comes to mind. He was tough with a rugged gentleness about him. John Wayne said what he felt and stood by it. He took criticism with a sense of humor. When John Wayne knew he was dying, he accepted it with dignity and said he had no complaints because he had been given a great life. In his last interview he laughed and said he was always surprised that an ugly guy like himself made it big in Hollywood. He was a true he-man.
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